I had to take a break from my normal schedule and share with you a recent comment that was made to one of my articles, “Top 10 Reasons Nice Guys Never Get Women”. Before we start this is an article I wrote a while back and posted on several sites. This morning I received a notice that someone had left a comment so out of curiosity I decided to click the link.
I scroll to the bottom to read the comment and here is what I read:
“1. i hate them all
All this article does is tell me how “men have to change to get women to l;ike them”. Its funny how we are always asked to change who we are in order to be offered love. But women are okay as they are. All this article does is make me hate women, all of them. And hate this society for its unequal treatment of men.”
I can’t get over how much pain and loneliness I was able to read in this comment. I felt horrible for this guy because he had given up on women.
I can’t fully wrap my mind over the sense of loss this guy must feel. Can you imagine going through life with this outlook on women?
What is his alternative – to go gay?
I am convinced that this man needs an intervention so to speak and more importantly to stop blaming women. He blames women for his fucked up life and he must rid his mind and inner voice from that poison.
I myself have been lonely in my life. I will be the first to admit that through my teenage years and a good part of my twenties I was awkward with women BUT I CHOSE TO CHANGE! I stopped blaming people and started to better improve my life.
There is nothing worse than choosing not to do something when help is right there. There is noting to be embarrassed in saying “Yes I want to get better with women.”
Unfortunately there are deeper issues at hand for this guy that left me that comment. It’s obvious his confidence is non-existent and worst of all he gave up. I honestly pray that he can get out of that mindset but he must first take action.
It’s all about change – changing for the better. Instead of the negative approach of telling yourself, “why do I need to change to get girls?” Instead employ the attitude of “Wait a minute if I do this I will get hotter chicks? Game on!!”
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